I’ve decided I love Mike. I already have been in love with him but I have just decided what that love means and to what lengths I am willing to go for him. I am going to wait and be patient. I am going to let him have his time to figure out what he wants and whether or not he wants to ever get married. But my patience is limited, I will wait until March 15th, 2011, which is precisely our three year anniversary. If I don’t have a ring on my finger by that day, either us being engaged or us being married I am leaving. I can’t wait for the rest of my life, and I won’t waste my youth when all I want is a husband who puts me first in everything and loves me and a kids. I am not going to sit around and hope Mike figures out if he wants me or marriage after that point, it will be hard enough for me to wait the remaining year and 8 months. I think dating three years is more than generous, especially when I feel like I am putting my life on hold for him. Any comments?